1. Be prepared to ask your partner
for his or her opinion rather than simply stating your own. For example:
'What do you think?'
'How about you?'
'Do you think ...?'
2. Listen carefully' to what your
partner says and respond to comments he or she makes to help the discussion
flow. For example:
'Do/Have/Are you?'
'Don't/Haven't/Aren't you?'
'Do you think so?
'Really?'
3. If you disagree try expressing
this politely. For example:
'I see what you mean but ...'
'I can see your point but ...'
'But don't you think ...'
4. Use expressions to allow
yourself time to think. For example:
'That's a good question.'
'Well, let me think ...'
'It's difficult to say ...'
5. You'll possibly find you don't
understand something your partner has said. If this happens, take control with
simple questions like those below to help you deal positively with the
situation.
A) If you didn't quite understand a
word or phrase just say something like:
"Sorry but could you explain
what you mean by ........" or
"I haven't come across that
word/expression before. Could you explain what you mean?"
B) If you didn't hear or didn't
understand something your partner has said, ask them to repeat it:
"Sorry, I didn't catch that.
Could you say that again?"
"Excuse me. Could you repeat
that?"
C) Alternatively, you might want to
confirm what you think your partner said so you could say something like:
"Do you mean ........"
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